Fearfully Wonderfully Me

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An Unexpected Lesson on Confidence

There I was, looking in the mirror of the thrift store fitting room as I tried on a pair of super cute jeans. I didn’t like the reflection I saw, and for some reason,  I was having a hard time getting over it.

If you’ve been following my blog for a while now, then you know that I’m in recovery from an eating disorder.  Although I have come a long way, there are still moments when I lose confidence in who I am. This was one of those times.

As I threw on my regular clothes and left the fitting room, I tried to shrug off the negative thoughts about my appearance that I knew were just lies from the enemy. And that’s when I saw her.

She was sitting on an old dusty sofa, looking at her feet. I sat down beside her, unsure of what to say. This was a woman who was “different” in terms of what society says is beautiful or worthy of attention. She was a little overweight and wearing old clothes and no makeup. But her smile and voice could melt any heart.

When I started talking to her, I realized that she had a mental disability of some kind.  I couldn’t make out her name or a lot of what she tried to say to me,  but when I complimented her long braided hair, she lit up like a  candle.

After I left the thrift store, I sat in the car for a moment to pray for the woman, who I knew was very dear to God’s heart. And that’s when it hit me–God sees that woman, and He sees me too.

Jesus loves and died for that woman, just like He did for me. If I could see the beauty and worth in a complete stranger, then that must mean that God can see the beauty and worth in me, His beloved daughter.

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. (1 John 3:1 NIV

Isn’t it amazing how God uses the most unexpected people to speak into our lives? I sure hope I could bless that woman in some way because she sure was a gift to me. She reminded me that God created us all uniquely–with different strengths and weaknesses.

Once we become secured in our identity as children of God, we begin to view ourselves a whole lot differently. This world seems to be plagued by one identity crisis after another. Why? Because people don’t know Jesus and that they belong to Him.

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. (Psalm 139:13-14 NIV)

Lovely reader, the next time you feel like you’re not thin enough, pretty enough, smart enough, or good enough, remember that God sees you. Remember that He knows you in ways that you don’t even know yourself. And yet, despite our flaws and sins, He loves us anyway. The blood of Jesus makes us new.

I want you to remember this so that the next time you look in the mirror, you realize that you are made in God’s image, and that He calls you good (Genesis 1:27). This is the confidence that no enemy can rob you of.


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Playful Bags + Spring Update

Fashion Fridays are back! Wait, what happened to the blog challenge? To be honest, blog challenges are fun at the beginning, but after a while I tend to get bored. Plus, I missed the fashion posts!

Spring is always an exciting time. A time of refreshing, new beginnings, and fashion reinvention. My spring break is coming up in a couple of weeks, and I plan on cleaning out my closet and giving some clothes to my friends.

I haven’t been on any real shopping sprees (because I’m trying to save money like a proper adult), but I’m thinking of going thrifting soon. Maybe I can create a post on what I find during a thrift shop trip! Tell me what you think of that in the comments below.

One trend I’m excited to see this season is the continuation of playful purses. I’ve always been picky about my bags, but Betsey Johnson has never failed to fascinate me by her eclectic and feminine designs. She’s a designer who’s really pioneered the classy yet playful bag.

(See more of my Polyvore collections)

Handbags have gotten even more more playful now, and you can find them in unique food shapes–like cupcakes and ice cream! Even this Betsey Johnson bag (top right) features some of my favorite treats on it.

These are the kind of purses that make a statement, but even if your style is not quite that bold, you can still carry one of these funky pieces of art. The key is keeping the rest of your outfit simple so that your bag can do all the talking.

[Yet] I will rejoice in the LordI will be joyful in God my Savior. (Habakkuk 3:18 NIV)


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